Lingerie shopping can be overwhelming especially if you do not have a positive body image. It’s already difficult as it is shopping for regular clothes. You want something that makes you feel sexy and desirable and at the same time hides whatever you perceive as imperfections. What make shopping for the perfect item more difficult is the inability to try them on because of hygienic reasons. So what’s a girl to do other than stand there and picture what she may look like in a particular piece of lingerie? Well the best advice I can give is to get to know your body type and what looks good on you. What accentuates your best assets while hiding your flaws.
Here are a few tips to remember when choosing lingerie:
This means that your bust, waist and hips are of similar size and that your curves are minimal. You want to choose Slips, Corsets & Garter Belts to add curves. Teddies are also great if you have a longer torso.
You have a top heavy figure with slim legs and arms and wide shoulders. Babydolls, Teddies and Robes can hide your midsection while Matching Sets with Push Up Bras draw attention to your chest.
Full busts, small waist and hips with wide shoulders look best in Halter Necklines. Matching Sets and Cami Sets give a straight look and even your bottom with your top.
With bigger hips and thighs and smaller shoulders, waist and bust it could go either way. If your goal is to flaunt your bottom, Bustiers and Flowing Babydolls will do the job. Matching Sets with Ruffle Bras enhance your top while Rompers with plunging necklines even your top with your bottom.
You Bitch. ? I’m Sorry. ? Your busts and hips are proportionate and your waist is small but well defined. Lucky Bitch. I’m Sorry. As I was saying, you look good in everything, ? however Corsets, MatchingSets, and Garter Skirts enhance the obeah that is your non-existent waist line.
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So everyone’s into restraints now. It’s cute. But are you really being dominant or submissive? Everyone knows I’m about that goodt goodt sex life. I don’t do the mediocre. It’s so bad that I’d prefer to indulge in self pleasure rather than have someone waste my time. The one place that I want to be submissive is in the bedroom. On a job I have to be aggressive and always proving that I am equal to my male counterparts and in some cases even better. In my business I am the CEO or the HBIC depending on who you ask that day. As a mother I am the Tsar, the dictator and commander in chief. With two master manipulators aged 18 and 9 I take no prisoners. I run a tight ship or else. During the day to day I have to finesse my interactions displaying strength and femininity simultaneously wielding my power. It’s not easy being a young black woman. So when I enter that space of intimacy I am tired. I just want to release some of my power. But not to just anyone. The transfer of power only occurs when there is a king ?in the room.
Submission is more than collars and restraints. It’s more than being whipped or commanded. Submission occurs when you fully trust your partner and you release yourself to their will. When you let go of your ego, your desire, and your will it is such a freeing experience. Do you know what it’s like to have your soul kissed? This requires the highest level of intimacy. When I enter that space I expect you to reign supreme. I want you to initiate. I want you to orchestrate. I want you to delegate. We will do what you want and how you want it. We are already in sync before we enter this space so there is no need for my permission. You already know.
Dominance is more than control. It is the art of skillfully harnessing a submissive will and manipulating it to achieve the common goal of intimacy on the highest level. It’s not a selfish thing. Yes you are in control but you are tasked with ensuring that the experience is successfully fulfilling. So I need you to know what you are doing sir. I will not submit to someone who lacks not only the sexual experience but also the knowledge, maturity and intimacy. Don’t get me wrong. You serve a purpose. Just not this one. This is reserved for he who handles things outside of the bedroom. He who has my back and supports me. He who challenges me, uplifts and motivates me. He who can turn me on without even touching me. He who speaks to my mind, my body and my soul. Get it? Submission goes beyond the sexual baby.
So as we continue to lock down, I want you to enhance your sexual experiences by exploring your dominant/submissive states. Engage in activities that will encourage willful submission. Try and connect to each others souls before sex and THEN decide what you both would like to try. Check out the latest in kink at https://www.crushedvelvet242.com/store/c6/FetishandKink
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