Well Damn! I really gatta do better! I am so sorry yall! I have neglected yall for almost a year. I'm gonna just go ahead and blame it on the pandemic like everyone else. ? As for me, writing takes some inspiration sometimes and let's just say I was inspired multiple times (in one night) last week to jump on here. ? Yall know what some bomb ass sex does to the female brain. Now that I done came (no pun intended) ? off that hit of dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin I could say a few words.
Life can be such a BIT*CH sometimes. Things can get overwhelming and stressful. We get caught up in the day to day drab of to do lists, chores, routines and responsibilities that days turn into weeks, and weeks turn into months and then boom it's a year and you're a virgin again! Don't get so consumed by all there is to do that you forget to enjoy your daily spin around the sun. Sex is such a great mood enhancer and here you are on day 3,789 wondering why life is so hard. You may be slightly depressed, moody and simply unhappy. I'm not a doctor or a psychiatrist but I can write you prescription for some SEX (if you're not getting any) to relieve some of that tension.
I just love our Bahamian men. I say it all the time! "They have the best talks"! A guy once said to me "Your oil need to change". LMAO The hilarious thing was that he was right! I really didn't realize how much sex affected my mental health. For several weeks now I was writing my resignation letter in my mind. I had spoken to a few confidants who tried to talked me off the ledge. However, it wasn't until that encounter that my entire mood and mindset changed. I completely leveled off. I was able to objectively look at my decision as my emotions were now in check. And not to brag but dude knew what he was doing!?
Of course I'm not saying that sex fixes everything, but when you're not getting any that may add to your problems. Sometimes it's difficult to get in the mood. Last week, sex was the furthest thing from my mind. As a matter of fact, I could've cared less because I was prioritizing so many other things. I hear a lot of women say this all the time. Sometimes it's intentional and sometimes it's just the way things are, but there is nothing like that human connection. That touch, that embrace. Some of you need to feel human again; not like superwoman. Some of you need that intimacy that makes you vulnerable. And then some of you need to be catered to, pampered and pleased. Some of you need to step into the bedroom and let go; recharge your life and repair some of the damage that has been done by the constant deprivation.
Now what is my blog without my shameless plug? ? Whether you have fella or not that is no excuse to be deprived. Visit crushedvelvet242.com and let's see how we can hook you up! I'm sure you've heard of the ? ROSE VIBRATOR by now!
Come back soon and read about how I found Happiness In A Vibrator!
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