WHAT THAT CAT DRAGGED IN.......

So you're thinking it's going to be awesome, epic, the best night of your life.  But it ends up being tragic, a flop and you're so disappointed because you like him/her orrrrrrrr you're stuck with him/her for the rest of your life. 

Who's to blame?  

Well when you walk into the bedroom, your hot sexy body isn't the only thing that enters with you. You bring your insecurities, your religious denominations, your preconceived notions about sex, you bring your friends and families advice, you bring what you see on television or porn and you bring what you may have experienced with someone else.

Whew Chile! 

That is alot.  Can you imagine processing ALLLLLLL of that data during what on average lasts about 20 minutes and you wonder why you are not having the best sex of your life?

I've said it before and I'll say it again.  Most of it is in your head darling and the rest of it is in communication. Empty your mind. Just let go of everything that you think you know.  Then let the conversation begin.  Ask yourself the big questions and be honest. What excites you? What do you truly want to accomplish in the bedroom? How do you really feel about sex? Do you enjoy sex? What can you do to ensure that your sexual experiences are always great and memorable? 

Then ask your partner. 

As stressful as it seems, how are you ever going to know. Because hunni, people fake it all the time!

What turns them on? What do they like? What about you turns them on? What do they dislike? More importantly do you please them and vice versa? If you are serious about improving your experiences you cannot rely on what you think you know.  Moreover, people change. What your partner may have been into 10 years ago may now be boring to them. You have to have the conversation! 

As always, for more information GOOGLE and READ! (You can even ask Suri or Alexa) because I certainly don't have all of the answers. And when you'e ready to try something new don't forget to visit us at www.crushedvelvet242.com and Like and Follow us on Facebook and Instagram @naughtyandnice242 and @crushedvelvet242

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