SUBMISSION

 

So everyone’s into restraints now. It’s cute. But are you really being dominant or submissive?  Everyone knows I’m about that goodt goodt sex life.  I don’t do the mediocre.  It’s so bad that I’d prefer to indulge in self pleasure rather than have someone waste my time. The one place that I want to be submissive is in the bedroom.  On a job I have to be aggressive and always proving that I am equal to my male counterparts and in some cases even better. In my business I am the CEO or the HBIC depending on who you ask that day. As a mother I am the Tsar, the dictator and commander in chief.  With two master manipulators aged 18 and 9 I take no prisoners. I run a tight ship or else. During the day to day I have to finesse my interactions displaying strength and femininity simultaneously wielding my power.  It’s not easy being a young black woman. So when I enter that space of intimacy I am tired.  I just want to release some of my power. But not to just anyone. The transfer of power only occurs when there is a king ?in the room.  

Submission is more than collars and restraints.  It’s more than being whipped or commanded. Submission occurs when you fully trust your partner and you release yourself to their will. When you let go of your ego, your desire, and your will it is such a freeing experience.  Do you know what it’s like to have your soul kissed? This requires the highest level of intimacy. When I enter that space I expect you to reign supreme. I want you to initiate. I want you to orchestrate.  I want you to delegate.  We will do what you want and how you want it.  We are already in sync before we enter this space so there is no need for my permission.  You already know.

Dominance is more than control.  It is the art of skillfully harnessing a submissive will and manipulating it to achieve the common goal of intimacy on the highest level. It’s not a selfish thing.  Yes you are in control but you are tasked with ensuring that the experience is successfully fulfilling.  So I need you to know what you are doing sir. I will not submit to someone who lacks not only the sexual experience but also the knowledge, maturity and intimacy.  Don’t get me wrong.  You serve a purpose. Just not this one.   This is reserved for he who handles things outside of the bedroom.  He who has my back and supports me.  He who challenges me, uplifts and motivates me.  He who can turn me on without even touching me. He who speaks to my mind, my body and my soul. Get it? Submission goes beyond the sexual baby.

So as we continue to lock down, I want you to enhance your sexual experiences by exploring your dominant/submissive states. Engage in activities that will encourage willful submission. Try and connect to each others souls before sex and THEN decide what you both would like to try.  Check out the latest in kink at https://www.crushedvelvet242.com/store/c6/FetishandKink

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